When we have something we would like to change in our lives, how often do we look for the answer that will change that thing? The one solution, or the one person that will create that new possibility or change? The right answer, finally!
But, how often does that truly work?
It doesn't. Why? Because there is no one answer, or one solution. Life and the creation of it is made up of an infinite number of small choices that we make every day that lead us to the future.
When we decide that there is one thing, one answer or one person (ie. the knight in shining armour) that is going to fix our lives, we have actually chosen to disempower ourselves. We have chosen to believe that we do not have any control of our choices. And the reason that is often so soul crushing and depressing, is because it's just not true.
We create everything that shows up in our lives. The good, the bad, and the ugly. It doesn't mean all those things are necessarily chosen from the most conscious space, and yet we still choose it all.
We choose how we respond to our surroundings, how much we buy into the reality we are born into, and what we choose to create for the future.
So, what if you no longer have to wait or seek for the answer to your problems or your life? It's as simple as recognising that you have choice in every moment.
What if YOU are the person that you've been waiting for?